A Loving Example

Today is our son’s birthday. A grown man, with a life of serving and protecting others; he’s a firefighter.

This morning I was reflecting on his childhood years and one memory came to mind immediately.

When he was in kindergarten and first grade, we lived in the farming area. Dave and I had the responsibility of taking care of 900 acres of alfalfa for an absentee owner, (now that’s another story I’ll tell you someday). Each evening we would go to the fields and check the hay that we needed to cut. Each midday we would walk through the fields and set up any bales that had dropped to the side when we were baling. This one particular day there were a lot of bales to tip back up.

I had gone ahead of Dave and the kids. When I turned around, the scene I saw was burned into my heart. Kim, our oldest daughter, was holding her father’s hand as they walked side by side, and Koy was following behind, trying to make his steps match his day’s, stride for stride. Dave had to make a long step, even for him, to get over the field border and when Koy attempted it, he fell short. Dave then lifted him and placed him on the other side.

Now, Dave or the kids probably don’t remember that day, but I do. As I watched, the Lord ministered to my heart, “follow Me, I will lead you and when you come to a place that you can’t maneuver, I will lift you up and put you on firm footing”.

It’s wonderful to have a Father whose example and footsteps we can follow securely.

 You are God’s dear children, so try to be like him. Live a life of love. Love others just as Christ loved us. He gave himself for us—a sweet-smelling offering and sacrifice to God.” Ephesians 5:1-2 ERV

Try to be like Him.

“I cannot do anything on my own. The Father sent me, and he is the one who told me how to judge. I judge with fairness, because I obey him, and I don’t just try to please myself.” John 5:30 CEV

Jesus’ life on earth was to do the will of His Father. When we follow His example, we will also do the Father’s will.

“My sheep know my voice, and I know them. They follow me, 28 and I give them eternal life, so that they will never be lost. No one can snatch them out of my hand.” John 10:27-28 CEV

I think it’s so interesting that Jesus referred to us following Him as sheep following the shepherd. It takes me to what King David said.

“The Lord is my Shepherd. I will have everything I need. He lets me rest in fields of green grass. He leads me beside the quiet waters. He makes me strong again. He leads me in the way of living right with Himself which brings honor to His name. Yes, even if I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will not be afraid of anything, because You are with me. You have a walking stick with which to guide and one with which to help. These comfort me.” Psalm 23:1-4 NLV

The Father is our example; let’s follow His lead!

Tenderhearted & Forgiving

Some of you have probably figured out that Dave and I are on a summer adventure. We left home recently in our traveling bunkhouse, our 5th wheel trailer. We are in the mountains of Arizona. Yes, Arizona has mountains, beautiful, cool mountains.

These trips away from our home are always times of growth. The Lord stretches me and shows me things in my life that I need to work on. I guess I just see them clearer when I am out of my daily routine. I’m happy to say that some of the things I have seen come to light show me that I have grown more in my faith and my compassion than I had realized. Others, the Lord has shown me I still have a ways to go.

Last night was one of those “I have grown more than I thought” situations. I woke up several times to the sound of a generator. Now for those of you unfamiliar with camping or RV park rules there are always quiet hours when no loud music or generators are allowed to operate.

But instead of getting angry because someone was obviously not following the rules my mind went to kind thoughts. Maybe they’re new to camping and don’t know the rules, maybe they have a new baby and didn’t realize it would be this cold and needed the generator to operate their heater, maybe…just maybe…

Each time I woke I heard the word tenderhearted. Being sympathetic and empathetic are actions of a tender heart. Looking at the cause instead of the action is a tenderhearted perspective. If my heart can be tender toward someone in the campground who I don’t even know shouldn’t I be more tenderhearted when relating to those in my own family and among my close friends and fellow Christians?

“Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. 32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:31-32 NLT

Christ paid the price for our sins long before we ever repented. His forgiveness and compassion aren’t based on our repentance, they come because of His unconditional love. Waiting for someone to say they are sorry before we forgive is selfish and not the way God forgives at all. We need to conform to His way of forgiving.

“Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children. Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God.” Ephesians 5:1-2 NLT

Exercise kindness, tenderness, forgiveness this summer. By doing these things, we will be an imitator of our Father and an example of His love to the world.